Monday, March 15, 2010

Why are we here?

As I logged on to facebook the other day, I saw that a close friend had posted a cosmic kind of a question on her wall. She wanted to have an insight into what we are doing on the face of this earth! Why are we here, she mused, what is the purpose of our being on this Earth? Soon, she had a flurry of replies telling her to have her morning coffee and do something meaningful so she would not have such bizarre thoughts. She was mad because that was not what she wanted to hear.

What was even more bizarre is that I have had this question in my head from as early as fifth grade. I would ask my mom, why are we here? What is left if this earth and we, were to cease to exist? My mother would tell me to go out and play. She had said to me that I was scared ever since it dawned on me that we were ON the sphere that we call Earth and NOT cocooned inside of it as I had earlier imagined. Ever since then I used to ask her that if gravity were to suddenly fail for some reason, where would we fall off and land? Finally one day, someone said we would all float into space. That is when I began to think why we were here in the first place!

Life changes fast. I definitely think that after I got to eighth grade, time began to fly by faster. The year would be done in no time at all, and it would be time for another new year. That pace has only gotten faster and faster. However, life has changed dramatically while time was busy flying. I was watching an old Hindi movie where village life was portrayed. What struck me was how slow the pace of life was! Those people were in no hurry at all! I agree it was just a movie, but life used to be like that, I am told. Nothing HAD to be done right now, like it is now. There were no schedules and calenders reminding us that everyday there was/were some thing(s) to be taken care of. I have heard people say they would not have it any other way, and then the next thing they say is how hectic life has become and that the stress is building up.

My husband asked me if I wanted a phone that would tell me if I had a new email as soon as I received it. I put my foot down and said no! This was how things got complicated. Once I knew there was an email, I would want to read it, which would mess with what I was doing in the first place. Do I really want something that is going to create more chaos than there already is in my life? No way! I do not wish to be ruled by a gadget!

There was a feature in the evening news about a family that moved away from city life, into a home that was secluded, had no TV, and electronic games, and the parents wanted their children to get back to nature. I do not know what they are up to now. The idea had really appealed to me when I watched it though. Now I know that many of you who are reading this will think that these thoughts are those of an idle mind, but come to think of it, at the end of the day, what does one want? Do you want to be at peace with the day that just went by? Or are you going to bed with thoughts of another action packed day with a dozen errands to run and another packed schedule?

I know that each one has a duty to perform, whether it is that of a parent, a child, a student, or a job holder, and we are supposed to be taking care of our responsibilities in the best way possible. That is the purpose, but delve deeper into this and you will know what I mean...

I do not have the answer to it, I am also sending out this cosmic question. What is the purpose of our existence?

2 comments:

  1. science religion ,philosophy all have been trying to answer this question..when we study a subject very deeply we realise how wonderful it all is...and how it blends into the cosmic plan...i guess we all need to look wethen ourselves to know the answers to the importance of our purpose of our existence..in this vast universe...

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  2. We are here not by our choice.
    But we have sanskars (we had no choice again, elders thought these were good for us) which guide us in our life.
    And we have a thinking mind. We can differentiate between good or bad, happiness and sorrow (again as guided by our sanskars).
    Extremists do not ask these questions. Their sanskars give them purpose of life.

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